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Your Marriage and Family depend on You

Breaking Free from Unwanted Sexual Behavior!​

Join our guided discipleship path trusted by hundreds of men. Ditch the shame and step into Real Freedom starting Today!

 

  • Stuck in a cycle of unwanted sexual behavior or addiction?

  • Are you tired of the lies, the shame, and living a double life?

  • Hare you tried to fix it on your own, or with programs that fell short?

  • Maybe you've tasted freedom… but you know there's more.​

You weren’t made to just manage behavior.
You were created for deep transformation —
heart, mind, and spirit.
This is your moment. This is your ground zero.

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Hi, I’m Michael Cary, founder of Men in the Battle. I started MIB because I needed it. My story is probably a lot like yours. I looked like I had my act together on the outside, I had a successful career, attended church regularly and led a Bible study at work. But behind the scenes, I was caught in a cycle of unwanted sexual behavior, including frequent pornography use and soliciting prostitutes. 

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I felt broken, ashamed, and completely alone.

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Despite years of trying to stop through various methods, nothing worked. Each failed attempt only deepened my shame and depression. I began to question whether God was even real. After 27 years of mishandling my sexuality in a variety of ways, I was in a very dark place. At my lowest point, I even considered ending my life.

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In 2009, God showed me the way out and I finally started living in FREEDOM!

After walking through the Path to Freedom process I learned, everything changed. I’m now living with peace—true serenity. I have a restored marriage, a thriving family, and a deep, authentic relationship with God. I wake up each day with crystal-clear purpose. My life is on track, and I’m becoming the man God always intended me to be.

 

Here’s what I want you to know:
There is a way out.
There is a better life—

one marked by the freedom you've always longed for.
And I want you to experience it too.

Men in the Battle is that way out, the path to that better life.

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I know it might be difficult to believe right now, but you can experience total freedom, and I am excited you are here, knocking on the door of that freedom. Let's take this journey together, let's get you free, my friend!

Join Men in the Battle

And get on the Path to the Freedom you've always wanted!

(Don't waste another minute trying to find Freedom alone!)

At Men in the Battle, we disciple men through the trenches of sexual addiction, betrayal, and shame — and into freedom, purpose, and restored identity in Christ. Our approach combines spiritual formation, raw honesty, community accountability, and practical recovery tools that lead to lasting transformation.

Read how Men in the Battle has impacted "John", a long-time member:

“Porn use and masturbation from a young age led to a pattern of cheating that carried into my marriage. 'Sin management' never worked. I was trapped in lies, insecurity, depression, suicidal thoughts, and self-hatred. I tried to stop many times, but nothing seemed to stick. Since joining Men in the Battle, I’ve seen a real shift in my heart — and my wife sees it too. Jesus has been faithful, even when I wasn’t. I'm experiencing more joy, peace, and freedom than ever before. For the first time, I finally feel like I’m becoming my true self.”

While "John’s" transformation was profound, here’s what Men in the Battle has helped produce in men
— seen through the eyes of their wives:

When I asked my husband to join Men in the Battle, I was praying for restoration and redemption. What he found was exactly what he needed:​

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  • A community and curriculum that helped him heal at the core, not just manage the destructive sexual behaviors that were tearing him apart and damaging our marriage.

  • He learned how to take off the masks he wore to protect himself and finally show up with transparency and authenticity.

  • He found true recovery — not just sobriety.

  • The spiritual and emotional growth in his life has been profound.​

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Today, we share a level of communication, honesty, and connection in our marriage that once felt impossible. Joining Men in the Battle was one of the best decisions he ever made — for himself and for us.”​

This is NOT about managing behavior—it’s about REAL transformation. Become the man who no longer acts out in unwanted sexual behavior—period.

Ready to get on the Path to Freedom?

(Membership is month to month, you can cancel anytime)

Your Men in the Battle Membership Includes:

✅ Path to Freedom Curriculum​

​Our exclusive Men in the Battle curriculum is built to challenge, equip, and guide you toward real transformation — breaking free from unwanted sexual behavior. Not just sobriety, but true freedom.

✅  40+ Hours of Bonus Content to Help You Grow

Gain access to exclusive live presentations & Q&A sessions with Michael & Kristin Cary. Members who advance through our Path to Freedom curriculum unlock additional online group meetings and Advanced level lessons. Plus, enjoy special discounts on our Men in the Battle Intensive.

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✅  MIB Discipleship Group​​

​Join a weekly 90-minute online group led by certified, trained facilitators who’ve walked the path to freedom and are committed to helping you reach yours. (Limited in-person spots may be available in Central Indiana.)

✅  MIB Community

Stay connected through our exclusive, private Men in the Battle online community — a safe space for real connection and honest conversations between meetings. Access everything through our mobile app — no email, no texting, no browser required.

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Here are the meeting times currently available: 

Mondays @ 7:30pm Eastern 

Tuesdays @ 7:30pm Eastern

Wednesdays @ 7:30pm Eastern  

Wednesdays @ 8:00pm Eastern 

Once you register, you will receive an email containing a link to choose your group preference.  

We have only 50 spots available—register now to secure yours before they’re gone!

Still undecided? Take a moment to watch this powerful overview video and see what it’s really like to be part of this group:

The value of a Men in the Battle membership:

✅ Private Online Community

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No shame, no fluff—just real connection with men walking the same road. What you get: 24/7 access to support, wisdom, and brotherhood

$100

✅ Weekly Live Discipleship Groups

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Led by trained facilitators and recovery mentors
What you get: Consistent connection, accountability, and encouragement

$200

✅ Weekly Community Challenges +

Spiritual Formation Tools

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Designed to build momentum and deepen your walk with Christ. What you get: Strategic action steps, devotional prompts, and journaling tools

$75

✅ Weekly Lessons & On-Demand

Resource Library

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Video teachings, worksheets, and tools on topics like triggers, relapse prevention, and rebuilding trust
What you get: Immediate access to real-life solutions

🔥 Total Value: $525/month

Your Invesment: Only $152/month!

By Comparison: The MIB monthly membership investmen is about the average cost for one 55 minute coaching session, and less than one counseling session!

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Questions? Please email Support+MIB@Living-Truth.org and we'd be happy to help! 

Take a sneak peek inside the Men in the Battle website and curriculum:

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Click below to join Men in the Battle and get on the Path to the Freedom you've always wanted!

 

Don't waste another minute trying to find Freedom alone!

Questions? Please email Support+MIB@Living-Truth.org and we'd be happy to help! 

All payments are non-refundable. This program cannot substitute for private therapy or mental health care with a licensed professional. Our groups are not recommended for individuals who are actively suicidal, abusing drugs or alcohol, or those diagnosed with personality disorders (NPD, BPD, etc).

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