michael-kristin-cary-living-truthMICHAEL AND KRISTIN CARY, CPSAS


Michael and Kristin Cary are passionate about leading this generation and the next to freedom from sexual sin. In 2009, while working through his own recovery from sexual addiction, Michael responded to God’s call to serve others facing similar struggles. A former technology industry professional, Michael is thrilled every time he sees a man experience freedom and healing from the slavery he once knew. Michael also loves helping young people walk away from sexual sin patterns that they are developing before they become strongholds, so that they can become fully devoted followers of Christ.

Kristin experienced the devastation of sexual betrayal, her marriage ending in 2006 as a result. She found relief and healing in various recovery groups and through working with both a trained counselor and a mentor who had walked this path before her. Kristin feels called and empowered to walk alongside women whose hearts have been crushed by the betrayal of their husband’s sexual brokenness. Kristin served in campus ministry with Campus Crusade for Christ for 15 years before going into full time sexual integrity ministry in 2011.

Michael and Kristin live in Westfield, Indiana with their three children.


Michael 1-317-204-3844 michaelc@living-truth.org
Kristin 1-317-645-7911 kristinc@living-truth.org

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Julee is a caring, wise mentor. I am so grateful for her kind yet challenging words to me each week. I always sense that even though we meet in a small group, she is personally invested in each one of us individually!


Being around Julee is a bit like hanging out with a kind Sherlock Holmes. I’ve greatly appreciated her perceptive wisdom, offering of being both gentle and direct, eye openers to live in both reality and hope, encouragement to grow and practice self-care, and her heart for God and people. Julee has been a reflection and conduit of God’s character and presence in the piece of my journey that holds deep pain due to my husband’s issues and overarching refusal to connect. I am grateful.


I believe that God has equipped and called Julee to minister to women wounded by the SA of our husbands. From the moment I first inquired about the support group she facilitates, she has consistently displayed her compassionate, honest wisdom in helping us face the trauma we have experienced and begin to heal. She is able to avoid becoming enmeshed in our troubles but tenderly, knowledgeably, loving walk beside us on our journeys to healing and joy.


I have been in Christian counseling for years. It was not until I started working with Kristin that I began to heal from my husband’s betrayal. God is using her story of pain and healing to bring hope and restoration to me and others.


I expected to find help in the area of purity, but had no idea how it would effect the rest of my life. Michael has helped me dig out the root of the problem. The benefits have stretched to my marriage, my walk with Christ, & my relationship with others


Kristin listened, asked questions, & helped me deal with feelings of betrayal. It’s been over a year & my husband & I are still working with Kristin & Michael. They have become a vital part of our marriage & I can’t imagine where we’d be without them.


They did a fantastic job and were easy to work with. Our staff were encouraged, students flocked to meet with them one-to-one. I recommend you consider inviting them to your campus.

Corey SchumacherCru Campus DirectorBall State University

I can’t thank (Kristin) enough for your help especially in the earlier days of this hell. You are truly living your gift which (to me) is love and compassion for the wounded in this pit called sexual addiction.


They spoke (to our students) powerfully from their own lives of the devastating effects of sexual brokenness & testified of the power of Christ & the gospel to redeem & restore. I give my endorsement.

Scott BerkeyCru Campus DirectorUniversity of Illinois

Julee is an absolute gem. She has a caring and compassionate demeanor and she doesn’t pass judgement on any situation. She has empowered me to take care of myself and has made a huge positive impact on my journey to healing.



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