“SEXUAL BEHAVIOR SELF ASSESSMENT”

“This assessment is designed to help you decide whether you should seek further help. There is no cost for this assessment. You will be asked a simple series of Yes/No questions and presented with further suggestions at the conclusion of your assessment. Our process ensures that no one but you will know your results. There is no information to link you with your assessment. Living Truth uses this test with the expressed written permission of Patrick J. Carnes, PhD, 2014. Please answer all questions in all honesty and click Calculate when complete.”

1. Were you sexually abused as a child or adolescent?

Yes:
No:

2. Do you regularly read romance novels or sexually explicit magazines, or regularly visit sexually explicit web sites or chat rooms?

Yes:
No:

3. Have you stayed in romantic relationships after they become emotionally or physically abusive?

Yes:
No:

4. Do you often find yourself preoccupied with sexual thoughts or romantic daydreams?

Yes:
No:

5. Do you feel that your sexual behavior is not normal?

Yes:
No:

6. Does your partner, spouse, girlfriend/boyfriend ever worry or complain about your sexual behavior?

Yes:
No:

7. Do you have trouble stopping your sexual behavior when you know it is inappropriate?

Yes:
No:

8. Do you ever feel bad about your sexual behavior?

Yes:
No:

9. Has your sexual behavior ever created problems for you and your family or friends?

Yes:
No:

10. Have you ever sought help for sexual behavior you did not like?

Yes:
No:

11. Have you ever worried about people finding out about your sexual activities?

Yes:
No:

12. Has anyone been hurt emotionally or otherwise because of your sexual behavior?

Yes:
No:

13. Have you ever participated in sexual activity in exchange for money or gifts?

Yes:
No:

14. Do you have times when you act out sexually followed by periods of celibacy (no sex at all)?

Yes:
No:

15. Have you made efforts to quit a type of sexual activity and failed?

Yes:
No:

16. Do you hide some of your sexual behavior from others?

Yes:
No:

17. Do you find yourself having multiple romantic relationships at the same time?

Yes:
No:

18. Have you ever felt degraded by your sexual behavior?

Yes:
No:

19. Has sex or romantic fantasies been a way for you to escape your problems?

Yes:
No:

20. When you have sex or masturbate, do you feel depressed afterwards?

Yes:
No:

21. Do you regularly engage in sado-masochistic behavior (i.e. sex with intentional pain involving whips, spanking, etc.)?

Yes:
No:

22. Has your sexual activity interfered with your family life?

Yes:
No:

23. Do you find yourself attracted to same sex porn or gay lifestyles?

Yes:
No:

24. Do you feel controlled by your sexual desire or fantasies of romance?

Yes:
No:

25. Do you ever think your sexual desire is stronger than you are?

Yes:
No:

26. Have you ever cruised public restrooms, rest areas and/or parks looking for sexual encounters with strangers?

Yes:
No:

27. Have you ever been approached, charged, arrested by the police, security, etc. due to sexual activity in a public place?

Yes:
No:

TESTIMONIALS

I have been in Christian counseling for years. It was not until I started working with Kristin that I began to heal from my husband’s betrayal. God is using her story of pain and healing to bring hope and restoration to me and others.

Anonymous

They spoke (to our students) powerfully from their own lives of the devastating effects of sexual brokenness & testified of the power of Christ & the gospel to redeem & restore. I give my endorsement.

Scott BerkeyCru Campus DirectorUniversity of Illinois

Being around Julee is a bit like hanging out with a kind Sherlock Holmes. I’ve greatly appreciated her perceptive wisdom, offering of being both gentle and direct, eye openers to live in both reality and hope, encouragement to grow and practice self-care, and her heart for God and people. Julee has been a reflection and conduit of God’s character and presence in the piece of my journey that holds deep pain due to my husband’s issues and overarching refusal to connect. I am grateful.

AD

They did a fantastic job and were easy to work with. Our staff were encouraged, students flocked to meet with them one-to-one. I recommend you consider inviting them to your campus.

Corey SchumacherCru Campus DirectorBall State University

Kristin listened, asked questions, & helped me deal with feelings of betrayal. It’s been over a year & my husband & I are still working with Kristin & Michael. They have become a vital part of our marriage & I can’t imagine where we’d be without them.

Donna

Julee is an absolute gem. She has a caring and compassionate demeanor and she doesn’t pass judgement on any situation. She has empowered me to take care of myself and has made a huge positive impact on my journey to healing.

A.B.

I believe that God has equipped and called Julee to minister to women wounded by the SA of our husbands. From the moment I first inquired about the support group she facilitates, she has consistently displayed her compassionate, honest wisdom in helping us face the trauma we have experienced and begin to heal. She is able to avoid becoming enmeshed in our troubles but tenderly, knowledgeably, loving walk beside us on our journeys to healing and joy.

Belinda

Julee is a caring, wise mentor. I am so grateful for her kind yet challenging words to me each week. I always sense that even though we meet in a small group, she is personally invested in each one of us individually!

Marg

I expected to find help in the area of purity, but had no idea how it would effect the rest of my life. Michael has helped me dig out the root of the problem. The benefits have stretched to my marriage, my walk with Christ, & my relationship with others

Anonymous

I can’t thank (Kristin) enough for your help especially in the earlier days of this hell. You are truly living your gift which (to me) is love and compassion for the wounded in this pit called sexual addiction.

Anonymous

STATISTICS

60-percent60% of pastors admit to viewing pornography in the last 30 days.

pastors.com

1-in-41 in 4 teens has an STD.

Center for Disease Control

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