Are you longing to…
✨ Feel safe and steady again—even when your world feels like it’s crumbling beneath you?
✨ Discern truth from deception so you can stop second-guessing your reality?
✨ Reclaim your God-given worth—even if betrayal has left you drowning in shame?
✨ Rise stronger than ever—even if you feel shattered beyond repair?
If your heart is aching and your mind feels like a tangled mess… you are not alone.
You don’t have to figure this out by yourself.
What you need isn’t more pressure—it’s support.
What you’re craving isn’t quick fixes—it’s clarity and compassionate guidance.
That’s exactly what Women in the Battle® was created to offer.
A sacred space to land.
A trusted path to healing.
A sisterhood that gets it—because we’ve lived it.
You Don't Have to Walk This Road Alone!
It’s absolutely terrifying to discover sexual secrets in your marriage.
Your world cracks open.
You don’t know who to trust.
You don’t know where to turn.
This is me in 2005, holding my infant son—just days after uncovering the kind of betrayal I never imagined I’d face. Don’t let my smiling face fool you. I was traumatized, disoriented, and so painfully alone. I didn’t know what to do next. I questioned everything—especially myself.
If any of this feels familiar, hear me: You are not crazy. You are traumatized.
And you’re not alone anymore.
To heal from the trauma of sexual betrayal, you need more than information or well-meaning advice.
You need women who’ve walked this same treacherous path and made it to the other side—whole, wise, and rooted in Jesus.
Since 2012, I’ve walked alongside hundreds of women—one-on-one and in community—guiding them through the disorienting fog of betrayal into clarity, healing, and hope.
If you want to feel safe again…
If you want to know your next steps…
If you want to rebuild your life (or discern what’s next for your marriage) with grounded faith and deep support—Women in the Battle was created for you.
We serve women whose marriages ended because of betrayal.
We serve women who are still deciding what they want.
And we serve women who are actively rebuilding their marriage.
Above all, we serve from the heart of Jesus—who came to bind up the brokenhearted, set captives free, and restore what’s been shattered (Isaiah 61).
This is a no-judgment zone.
A soft place to land after the earthquake.
A sacred space for your restoration.
What our women say...
"When I came to Women in the Battle, I was very confused. and isolated. I was overwhelmed trying to find help in marriage counseling, Bible studies, etc. I was tired and frustrated, and even a little angry when I first came into the meeting. I didn't need one more thing to take care of in the midst of medical struggles, parenting, and just doing life. Over the course of time, what Women in the Battle helped do is bring light and clarity for me to know that recovery was not happening in my marriage. Ultimately, my husband decided to leave and walk toward the darkness of a life that he had been cultivating for a long time. That was really scary. I felt powerless in a lot of arenas, Being connected at Women in the Battle, I was able to start to gain confidence in knowing what I could control, what I could decide. I even had joy, which was a word that I was not feeling at all when I first came into Women in the Battle."
- Heather
"I had horrible spiritual trauma and betrayal. Kristin understood this and helped me to swear, express anger, be congruent with the truth of myself and what was happening in my life. She never pushed some kind of false or hasty forgiveness – always expressed that God loved me and was fine with my reality and my honesty. She never tried to 'get me' to change my thoughts or feelings. Kristin has come so far in her own recovery, she's comfortable with a mess and doesn't try to convince me that I'm ok or things are ok when they are not. She's a very safe person."
- Corri, WIB Group Facilitator
Your Women in the Battle® Membership Includes:
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The Healing Path
Our exclusive Healing Path curriculum, designed to help you make progress on your journey.
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WIB Support Group
A weekly 90-minute online group led by peer facilitators who have been where you are.
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WIB Online Community
Connect with women who truly understand, including ministry wives, women over 60, those divorcing, and women who live near you. Our member's only forum is private and confidential.
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Grounding Toolbox, Q & A Sessions, & Bonus Content
Access to our Grounding Toolbox designed to help you regulate your nervous system. You'll also have access to recorded and LIVE Q & A sessions where you can submit your questions to us.
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Members-only Discount to WIB Retreat
Special pricing for annual WIB Retreat in Central Indiana.
Kristin Cary
Co-Founder of Living Truth Inc.
Founder of Women in the Battle®
Hello! My name is Kristin Cary-
and I’m so glad you’re here.
I sensed God calling me into ministry right after college, and and I served in full-time campus ministry for years. But everything changed in 2002 when I discovered my husband's sexual betrayal. That moment shattered the life I thought I was living—and began a deeply painful, confusing journey I never saw coming.
I know the devastation of sitting with leaders or friends who meant well but didn’t understand the trauma of betrayal. With every new discovery, my hope crumbled a little more… until our marriage ended in 2006.
For over five years, I was a single mom—navigating grief, motherhood, and faith with a broken heart. But everything began to shift when I met a Christian therapist who truly understood betrayal trauma. Through her support group of betrayed women, I found a circle of safety, validation, and deep healing. For the first time, I didn’t feel crazy or alone. My heart began to mend.
And over time—miraculously—my life began to flourish. Not in spite of the pain, but because of what God restored through it.
In 2010, I married Michael, and together we launched Living Truth in 2013 to offer hope, healing, and truth to others walking the road we know so intimately.
What the enemy meant for destruction, God has redeemed as my life’s mission.
It would be my deepest honor to walk beside you as you reclaim your voice, your worth, and your future.
Questions? Please email Support+WIB@Living-Truth.org and we'd be happy to help!
If you’re married, your husband doesn’t have to walk this road alone either.
My husband, Michael, leads Men in the Battle®—a powerful, trauma-informed program that supports men in breaking free from unwanted sexual behaviors and stepping into lasting transformation. This isn’t behavior management. It’s heart-level healing.
Michael understands this journey from the inside out, and he's helped hundreds of men move from secrecy and shame into freedom and integrity.
If you’d like your husband to receive information about how to join Men in the Battle®, simply click below and share his contact details. We’ll make sure he gets everything he needs. Please note: Men in the Battle® is a separate registration from Women in the Battle®.
More testimonies from our members...
“I cannot say enough about how Women in the Battle® has saved my sanity and possibly my marriage. When I arrived, I was full of shame and felt like no one would ever understand how destroyed my world was by my betrayal. I was not really functioning and did not know how to get help. My facilitators let each of us be heard, allowing us to just sit in each other’s pain without leaping in to fix anything. We even laughed together in the midst of the worst pain any of us have faced. I was able to find myself again and get the ground to stop shifting long enough to learn what was happening to my husband and to my marriage. My instinct was to run or to hide. I do not know what the future holds, but I now know that I will be ok when I take care of myself and do the work I need to do.”
-Kristin R.
“Women in the Battle is THE thing that changed me from being a victim of trauma to healing and growth because of my trauma. It is the best thing I've ever done for myself.”
- Tammy
"WIB was the first place I found that directed me to tools that could truly speak to the level of disfunction I was living in. "
- Hannah
"I have grown more in this season than I ever believed possible. I never thought in my early 50’s I’d still be learning about myself and growing so much. I feel supported by safe women that I could call upon day or night. I have confidence and I am enough. I support women by facilitating groups and coaching them through their life difficulties. I know who I am and if things were to change and my marriage didn’t end up working, I know I would be okay."
- Brenda, WIB group facilitator & Certified Life Coach
Women in the Battle is open for enrollment NOW!
When you join this revolutionary program, you will have immediate access to:
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Our private social network just for women
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Stage 1 of the Healing Path
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Various online meeting options (You'll choose the one that works best for you)
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Our Grounding Toolbox and other valuable bonus content
A Women in the Battle membership is only $152/month
(less than the cost of many one-time therapy sessions)
Spaces are limited.
Payments made are non refundable,
but you can cancel your membership anytime with no further obligation.
Can't afford the monthly membership but know you NEED this?We have partial scholarships available for women in need!
Questions? Please email Support+WIB@Living-Truth.org and we'd be happy to help!
All payments are non-refundable. Our peer facilitated groups are NOT led by licensed counselors. This program cannot substitute for private therapy or mental health care with a licensed professional. Our groups are not recommended for individuals who are actively suicidal, abusing drugs or alcohol, or those diagnosed with personality disorders (NPD, BPD, etc).
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